To Love or To Be Loved

Most of us was brought up with the stories with the ending "..happily ever after..." but fairy tales does not always happen in the reality world of us.

It would be a subjective answer to each of us. One might choose to be love but another one might choose to be loved. When it comes it comes-love is blind after all. There is a different between a girl and a women thoughts. Most of the girls will choose to love but women will choose to be loved. 

Mingling with another level of people just proof to me that a girl will be bliss to choose to be loved. The level of sacrifices will be different and eventually one will realise or maybe not. The first question that is always on my mind would be "Do you see your future with your partner?"

BF-GF relationship is totally different compared to Husband-Wife relationship. 10 out of 1 man would have this so-called "lazy genes" in them or the "women should do" genes. But will your partner sacrifice for you? Will your partner take turns with you to take care of your babies during the night? Will your partner helps you around with household chores? Will your partner spends more time with the family instead of friends? Will your partner have another savings for the future? All comes back to the commitment. 

If the road taken was hilly, sloppy or maybe wavy, have a thought about it. If the road taken was smooth then you will have a blissful life. Have a thorough thought! Good night!

Signing off,

SS