Control FREAK

No matter what you want to say is not my fault. No sorry from me. I wonder why people can be so control freak. Mind you, you don't expect everyone to follow you? Control until the rubbish bin? Nothing else to do? Why everything have to be your way and only your way? So what if your are "big"???? Please have a thorough thought why do i say so. There is a reason behind all the so-called 'no big no small'.

Rule2# Be POSITIVE

Positive thinking lead to a better and happy life? 

Everything has two sides of story. Is your choice to take the good or bad side. For instance, you might thought no one support you in whatever you are doing but another point of view, you get to learn to be independent. Why do we have to rely on people when we can do it ourself? Not getting support is awful. But, treating ourself bad is even more awful. Learning to take things from the good side. Be positive ain't the same with putting hopes on something. For instances, when we don't have much hope on it, we can take it positively instead. I used to have hopes after hopes, but not all will come true.  Accept what has been given and be grateful. 

Signing off,

SS

Rule1# Forget the PAST

Forget the past in order for us to see the difference. Not a single thing in life will stay forever. When it change, it change. No matter how much hope you put on it, no matter how you wish it to be like before, it will never be the same. Lifestyle changes, friends come and go and relationship highs and lows. i always wanted things to be like before but reality hits. i will not get back the good ol'times i had. Not that i have bad times now, is just i missed those days. those days when he is just right beside me. those days when i have a buddy. those days when i have a cozy home. Forget the PAST and live everyday to the fullest. It is a bless if you see the sun tomorrow.

Signing off,
SS

Reality Check

A TVB drama that shows us the reality side of this world. Two major points of causing a chaos in the reality world would be "communication" and "money". Without these two factors we are all alone in this world. Communication plays an important role especially in the family. It is not wrong to say things that you don't agree out but make sure it is reasonable. Definitely don't keep everything in you as one day when the "volcano" explodes it would be very serious. No one in this world knows what are you thinking. If you do not convey your message out, others might get the picture wrong. With communication there comes toleration. These both complement each other. Different age has different thinking. Even though we do not agree, we need to tolerate. If not there would be argument here and there everyday. Another factor money. Yes with money you can do what you want but do you think money can bring you happiness and family? Without money our life would be hard. Earn hard for the money.The money won't just fall from the sky. Don't act with your family to get the money. It is so wrong. Hard earn money are the one that will stay with you for life and you will treasure. Never be greedy. We must be thankful with what we have. 

Signing off,

SS

To Stay Together or To Leave Together

Each one of us have different perspective in this. Who doesn't want to stay together forever with their loved ones? But, when the reality hits. It really hits where one of them have to leave the world. Do you want your partner to stay in this world happily or do you want your partner to leave this world with you? The moment being together might not be long but i rather choose to have my partner to live happily in this world. Why do we have to leave together? Even though the moment might be short but at least we had the moment before. A moment where two of us will remember forever. Sometimes we have the choice sometimes we do not have. God gave us life. A life to be treasured. If you feel you the world isn't fair to you look around. One might do not have a choice in their life but you do. Have a thorough thought. When you fall, get up!! Don't give up!!

Signing off,
SS